Today, I had a discussion with my mom about the marriage and some stuffs. As a parent, she just wants me have a good body and life. For the marriage, she is not really demanding. But, some days ago, she told me that my cousin is going to get married and lacking of money and wants to borrow some from her. I asked the result. My cousin didn't borrow so far, because he gets it from his uncle stuff. My mom can help a little but not the bulk, that is her idea. I always say, the children have their own happyness. As parents, what you have to do is raise the children to grown and make them be responsible for their life, instead of asking something from them. Of course you can, I mean not control of them, ask them do what you want them to do or your friends want them to do. That is not your responsibility. Everybody will take the responsibility of their life not the others will. Overall, she will give some help if she could. That is really enough for me. To be frank, I don't want them to tired the get illed. That is not valuable. Everybody has their own way to step on. I can give some help when I can. Yet, I don't take the decision for them.
Anyway, Love you mom, see you tomorrow.